Honor

To have honor you have to have integrity, honesty, ethics, good principles, kindness, fairness, trustworthiness, reliability. Your honor is based on the choices you make you, your values and actions. Other people can't earn honor for you, you have to earn it yourself, and honor is something that stays within you something that lowers when you have done something wrong and rises when you do something right .

Some synonyms for honor are: privilege, prestige, recognition, respect

To be dishonorable it means you have chosen the wrong and you don't do thing that deserve the respect of other people. When you are dishonorable you chose to do something that was not the right thing to do. 

Synonyms for dishonor: disgrace, shame, humiliation, discredit,

Your honor can't be affected by other people, honor is from within your self and something that only you can change.